The Unsung Heroes of the Kitchen

At Lwazi Photography, we believe traditional African weddings are vibrant celebrations of culture, unity, and heritage. Behind the scenes, the kitchen managers—boMme ba moKhitlo or amakhosikazi asekhishini—are the true heartbeat of the event. Dressed in colourful doeks and traditional attire, these women rise early to prepare authentic dishes like beef stew (inyama), phuthu, and samp and beans in cast iron pots over open flames. Their cooking is more than a meal; it’s a sacred tradition, blending ancestral wisdom with rich flavours that symbolize prosperity and community. The sights, sounds, and aromas from their kitchen create unforgettable memories, nourishing both body and soul. At Lwazi Photography, we honour these unsung heroines by capturing their strength, spirit, and essential role—because no traditional African wedding story is complete without them.